Rather ask yourself…
Do I WANT to feel anxious?
Is my anxiety serving me?
Will I accept this anxiety, or work to remove/reduce it?
Will I attempt to plan my life, or wait to be told when I’m allowed to?
Am I connecting with what’s available OR with what’s helping?
Certainty is always an illusion. It’s NOT certainty you need. It’s the power to know that whatever happens, you’ve got this.
Clients, you know I’m not about to enable you.
You know I’m not about to feed your current state. If I did, I would expect you to fire me.
So, my compassion will not be demonstrated by diving in, but in helping to pull you out.
I got you.