Saying ‘No’ is Not Enough

You need to pay attention to the residue that ‘no’ leaves behind in you. Saying ‘no’ and feeling guilty about letting someone down, or hurting someone’s feelings, is not experiencing the full power of your right to say ‘yes’ to yourself.Saying ‘no’ and over compensating, or feeling obliged to ‘make it up to someone’, is…

Learn Your Rhythms

  Since learning my rhythms, only a few years ago, my awareness of self has contained more clarity than ever before.I know when I’m likely to be irritable, angry.I know when I’m likely to be impulsive, maybe buy that thing I don’t need.I know when I’m likely to be extra sensitive, to the world around…

Generational Trauma & Race

There is no one alive who has not felt the vibration of generational trauma within his or her own life. There are many for whom it has been designated a different label, hastily indexed under an alternate category such as awkward behaviour or unfortunate personality trait. As someone who has spent thousands of hours trawling through all manner of…