However much we try to come up with definitions that detract the term soulmate from its spiritual connotations, the fact remains we’re describing a type of connection that goes beyond the purely mental or physical. It can be as instant as a bolt of electricity travelling through our bodies, as slow as an explorative gaze into someone’s…
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If we swap the term relationship and cut it right back to basics, what we’re really concerning ourselves with here is a series of connections. We are all prone and programmed to make these and whether we like it or not, they’re utterly unavoidable once something enters our stream of consciousness. When I speak about connections affecting…
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Working with me can feel like a rollercoaster. A smooth start, before I ask the one question that tips you over the edge. Then it’s fast, emotionally it’s bumpy and the minute you think you’re done, here comes another unexpected loop to scare the shit out of you.The loop you could only get to by…
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There is a strong chance that some of the activities you’re regimenting are counter-intuitive to what’s most helpful to your life. In almost every moment, your body is indicating what it desires and why. The trouble is, the art of distinguishing between brain and gut is one not being cultivated or honoured by most people. There…
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They will try everything possible to alert you to their presence and until you see them, you will be stuck exactly where you are. It may be one bad relationship after another, one disappointing job after another, one betrayal after another. They will keep returning. You have a deep and binding relationship with your patterns,…
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Firstly, what is intuition? Intuition is not, contrary to what you have been lead to believe, the sole domain of women and mothers. It is in fact available and accessible to anyone with even a fleeting connection to their own body. Think back to the time your usual shortcut through a dark street felt like…
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What you’re not usually told upfront is that many of the people who are successful with affirmation work are those for whom it is neither the beginning, nor the end of their growth work. Those who identify it as part of a machine, rather than the entire beast itself. If you really want to start…
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Who did you give it to? Who took it from you?What illness, what husband, lover, boss, friend, stranger?How desperately do you want to heal?How consumed are you, with never letting it happen again?How consumed are you with understanding how it happened, at all?Action.Your answers are in action.There are people who stay stuck where you are…
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That person who doesn’t react as you expect them to.Who doesn’t cry when you, or the world, is drowning in tears.Who laughs because the irony and capriciousness of life presents itself again and again and again. In places you do not even know exist.Who weeps at joy instead of pain.Who stands back because they…
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