Author: Tori
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Solutions to Anxiety
There is a loop, a spiral that you will find yourself in.Up down.Down up.Only to find yourself back in the same place.Staring at the same future.Stuck, obsessing over the same past.Is it possible to step out/off/away from it?Yes.Yes it is.What have you tried?
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Are They Your Soulmate or Your Earthmate?
It can be difficult sometimes to have an in-depth conversation about relationships without the mention of soulmates. We hear a lot about them, these people with whom we have an inextricable connection, one that can’t be explained through the science or logic that so many of us rely on elsewhere in our lives. There’s a
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What We Really Mean, When We Talk About Relationships
There’s nothing in your life that you don’t have a relationship with. I’m not usually one to use double negatives, but in this case it feels necessary. As does clarifying that the word relationship isn’t reserved for people and things you like and love, or even those you personally know or encounter on a daily basis.
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See The Problem. Fix The Problem. Next
Working with me can feel like a rollercoaster. A smooth start, before I ask the one question that tips you over the edge. Then it’s fast, emotionally it’s bumpy and the minute you think you’re done, here comes another unexpected loop to scare the shit out of you.The loop you could only get to by
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It’s Not About Your Routine, it’s About Your Energy
Most of us have been conditioned to believe the main formula for success is hard work and commitment. We believe that by being stringent in our daily routines, it inevitably translates to a linear and direct trajectory to the desires we’re attempting to manifest. This thinking is applied to many and varied situations; date
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The Patterns Working With You Are Teaching You What Needs to Be Healed
Your patterns will show up covered in diamonds, or they will come dressed in rags; whichever is the quickest way for you to recognise them. They will try everything possible to alert you to their presence and until you see them, you will be stuck exactly where you are. It may be one bad relationship
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Your Intuition is an In-Built Business Strategy, Here is How to Use it
Strategy in large corporations is a necessity, an effective way to ensure teams are clear on the various components of a project. There is an often unquestioned requirement to map the logical route from idea to end product, know exactly why certain actions are being taken and spot any indicators predictive of missed deadlines, negative
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3 Reasons Your Affirmations Aren’t Working
The affirmations industry is big. Huge. There are people all over the world staring into mirrors, talking to themselves and repeating how marvellous they are, how strong, capable and confident they are. There are millions of pounds being made by promoting this fake it till you make it approach and a very clear consumer hope
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Take Your Power Back
Who did you give it to? Who took it from you?What illness, what husband, lover, boss, friend, stranger?How desperately do you want to heal?How consumed are you, with never letting it happen again?How consumed are you with understanding how it happened, at all?Action.Your answers are in action.There are people who stay stuck where you are
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How You Act in Chaos is The Key to Your Peace
That person who doesn’t react as you expect them to.Who doesn’t cry when you, or the world, is drowning in tears.Who laughs because the irony and capriciousness of life presents itself again and again and again. In places you do not even know exist.Who weeps at joy instead of pain.Who stands back because they are
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‘It’s Normal to Feel Anxiety Right Now, Isn’t it?’ Is NOT The Question to Ask Me
Rather ask yourself…Do I WANT to feel anxious?Is my anxiety serving me?Will I accept this anxiety, or work to remove/reduce it?Will I attempt to plan my life, or wait to be told when I’m allowed to?Am I connecting with what’s available OR with what’s helping?Certainty is always an illusion. It’s NOT certainty you need. It’s
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Yes, Trauma is a Gateway But You Can’t Take it With You
It’s true that many people experience their own spiritual awakenings in the aftermath of trauma. From a single life-changing incident, to the sudden implosion of a lifetime’s worth, trauma is a recognised gateway into the search for higher meaning. It’s the propelling force for some, to seek the purpose of existence and all manner of
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Time Doesn’t Heal, it Integrates. And Integration is Not Always Healing
The passing of time does not erase your problems. It may bury them in reactions and patterns that help you to survive from day to day.But it does not heal experience, it integrates it.Rightly or wrongly, negatively or positively.Those experiences you never dealt with are still happening, right here, right now. Time isn’t linear, we
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You’re Going to Feel Vulnerable AF and Wonder Why The Hell You Started This
At some point during our session you’re going to feel uncomfortable. Really uncomfortable. You’re going feel vulnerable AF and wonder why the hell you started this, if it’s actually worth it.You’re going to wonder for a split second about the best way to get out of the conversation, then you’ll remember you can’t and that
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Clearing The Past is Not Enough
Pace it forward. Where are the holes? Where are the shadows that will send you straight back to square one? Generational deprogramming, patterns & clarity work, will give you a vast understanding of your behaviours and thoughts. It’s in setting outcomes and looking forwards that you’ll be able to glimpse any shadows still lurking.
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What Happened To Your Power?
If anything became apparent to me during 2020, it was the sheer dependency the vast majority of human beings have on their physical world. To most this will appear an odd thing to write, of course we depend on our physical world, it’s well, the world. But this superficial understanding of what it means to