The Library


  • Pinned Post: What’s it Like Working With Me?
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    Pinned Post: What’s it Like Working With Me?

    My coaching practice is built on more than offering you strategies or solutions. I’ve created it as a space for you to feel truly seen, held, and supported. It is the most important gift I can give to you.   No one arrives wanting to find a better relationship, or reconnect with who they are,

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  • Pinned Post: Come Find Me Where I Am (Part I)
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    Pinned Post: Come Find Me Where I Am (Part I)

    This morning, I issued an invitation to the universe, for it to come find me where I am. I am not lost, I am simply here.   I have known for a while that my biggest need, right now, is to remain in the present moment. It’s a need to hold a deep awareness, a genuine

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  • Is This Why You Fear Your Own Darkness?

    Is This Why You Fear Your Own Darkness?

    Why is it you fear the dark so much, the shadows, those things that move on the edge of your peripheral vision? Is it because you expect them to be waiting, to be stronger than you and all the faith you have fostered over the decades? Is it because you imagine yourself to be utterly

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  • Stop Complaining About Your Marriage, Your Partner, Your Job, Being Broke. It’s Boring

    Stop Complaining About Your Marriage, Your Partner, Your Job, Being Broke. It’s Boring

      Spare a thought for the friends who always listen to your same problems, over and over again.The problems you’re doing nothing to change.Spare a thought for the friends who constantly give you advice, that you never take.The friends who sit patiently whilst you rehash the same feelings and stories. For months, even years.It may

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  • Solutions to Anxiety

    Solutions to Anxiety

    There is a loop, a spiral that you will find yourself in.Up down.Down up.Only to find yourself back in the same place.Staring at the same future.Stuck, obsessing over the same past.Is it possible to step out/off/away from it?Yes.Yes it is.What have you tried?

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  • Are They Your Soulmate or Your Earthmate?

    Are They Your Soulmate or Your Earthmate?

    It can be difficult sometimes to have an in-depth conversation about relationships without the mention of soulmates.  We hear a lot about them, these people with whom we have an inextricable connection, one that can’t be explained through the science or logic that so many of us rely on elsewhere in our lives. There’s a

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  • What We Really Mean, When We Talk About Relationships

    What We Really Mean, When We Talk About Relationships

    There’s nothing in your life that you don’t have a relationship with. I’m not usually one to use double negatives, but in this case it feels necessary. As does clarifying that the word relationship isn’t reserved for people and things you like and love, or even those you personally know or encounter on a daily basis.

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  • See The Problem. Fix The Problem. Next

    See The Problem. Fix The Problem. Next

    Working with me can feel like a rollercoaster. A smooth start, before I ask the one question that tips you over the edge. Then it’s fast, emotionally it’s bumpy and the minute you think you’re done, here comes another unexpected loop to scare the shit out of you.The loop you could only get to by

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  • It’s Not About Your Routine, it’s About Your Energy

    It’s Not About Your Routine, it’s About Your Energy

      Most of us have been conditioned to believe the main formula for success is hard work and commitment. We believe that by being stringent in our daily routines, it inevitably translates to a linear and direct trajectory to the desires we’re attempting to manifest. This thinking is applied to many and varied situations; date

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  • The Patterns Working With You Are Teaching You What Needs to Be Healed

    The Patterns Working With You Are Teaching You What Needs to Be Healed

    Your patterns will show up covered in diamonds, or they will come dressed in rags; whichever is the quickest way for you to recognise them. They will try everything possible to alert you to their presence and until you see them, you will be stuck exactly where you are. It may be one bad relationship

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  • Your Intuition is an In-Built Business Strategy, Here is How to Use it

    Your Intuition is an In-Built Business Strategy, Here is How to Use it

    Strategy in large corporations is a necessity, an effective way to ensure teams are clear on the various components of a project. There is an often unquestioned requirement to map the logical route from idea to end product, know exactly why certain actions are being taken and spot any indicators predictive of missed deadlines, negative

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  • 3 Reasons Your Affirmations Aren’t Working

    3 Reasons Your Affirmations Aren’t Working

    The affirmations industry is big. Huge. There are people all over the world staring into mirrors, talking to themselves and repeating how marvellous they are, how strong, capable and confident they are. There are millions of pounds being made by promoting this fake it till you make it approach and a very clear consumer hope

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