The Library


  • Pinned Post: What’s it Like Working With Me?
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    Pinned Post: What’s it Like Working With Me?

    My coaching practice is built on more than offering you strategies or solutions. I’ve created it as a space for you to feel truly seen, held, and supported. It is the most important gift I can give to you.   No one arrives wanting to find a better relationship, or reconnect with who they are,

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  • Pinned Post: Come Find Me Where I Am (Part I)
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    Pinned Post: Come Find Me Where I Am (Part I)

    This morning, I issued an invitation to the universe, for it to come find me where I am. I am not lost, I am simply here.   I have known for a while that my biggest need, right now, is to remain in the present moment. It’s a need to hold a deep awareness, a genuine

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  • On Men; Reconnecting Mind and Body

    On Men; Reconnecting Mind and Body

    There’s a key piece of information you should have been taught as a young boy; a fact that once adopted, can vastly change the course of your relationship to the entire world around you. This is where I want to begin.    I want to start not with a denial of your right to ask

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  • Perception, Crossed Wires, Lost Friendships

    Perception, Crossed Wires, Lost Friendships

    I had an interesting experience today. I met with a man whom I had come to know through a mutual friend; I’ll call her Lucy for the sake of this story. I knew very little about the history of their friendship but was intrigued as to how they met. What I unexpectedly found out was

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  • We Are More Than What Separates Us

    We Are More Than What Separates Us

    One of the biggest insults | crimes | untruths leaked into the human race is the illusion of separation. The belief that we are separate from each other to various and solid degrees; gender, skin, emotion, thought. These useful and convenient layers we use to identify ourselves will make life more manageable, only until we

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  • Pinned Post: What is Emotional Mastery?

    Pinned Post: What is Emotional Mastery?

    Emotional mastery is about more than control and it has nothing to do with perfection. Emotional mastery is about observation and conscious decision making. It’s about seeing the choices that show up in your reality; in the split second before stress does, in the moment before disharmony is expressed through an argument in your relationship,

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  • A Brave CEO is a Vulnerable CEO
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    A Brave CEO is a Vulnerable CEO

    There are moments that regularly arise in life, when the only two options we have are bravery or familiarity. These moments show up more often than we likely acknowledge, from the adventurous decision to swap our usual dish in our favourite restaurant, to the more impactful one of quitting the job that is slowly strangling

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  • Sometimes, Being Powerful Looks Like You’re Doing Nothing

    Sometimes, Being Powerful Looks Like You’re Doing Nothing

    I have a varied friends circle, I wouldn’t call it large but yes, it’s definitely wide and diverse in a lot of ways. The folks I hang out with have different faiths, beliefs, ethnicities, economic backgrounds, education levels and marriage statuses. They work in multiple industries, anywhere from teacher, exotic dancer, lawyer, barmaid, right across

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  • This is Why You Don’t Want to Return to Normal

    This is Why You Don’t Want to Return to Normal

    For over a year the world has been desperate to return to normal. It’s all that has been spoken about, the new normal, the way things were. One of the interesting things is that for most people normal means totally different things and yet it’s now discussed as a collective desire. Whilst it may seem

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  • Stop Negotiating

    Stop Negotiating

    Stop hearing what your intuition is telling you and then rationalising it to suit what everyone else *might* want or need. You are royalty. You are sovereignty. Act like it.

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  • Are You Losing The Competition Against Yourself?

    Are You Losing The Competition Against Yourself?

    There are many high-flying women out here who believe success revolves around taking one’s place within previously male dominated arenas. That it means getting the same roles, earning the same pay, being afforded the same or better opportunities for growth. With this, the collective advancement of our mindset has been extraordinary, achieving positions now that

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  • 4 Ways to Learn From Your Relationship Mistakes

    4 Ways to Learn From Your Relationship Mistakes

    You will be a rare person who’s only ever had one romantic relationship in their life, and even rarer if you’ve had multiple relationships where no mistakes have ever been made. The fact is, mistakes, slip ups, indiscretions, whatever you want to call them, they all happen. We deal with them by learning, moving on

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